Anxiety,  Self Development,  Spiritual Awakening

Is it Possible to Create Your Dream Life in Just One Year?

Woman overlooking sunset and canyon

Sooo………..this could turn out to be a complete disaster! I’m about to embark upon a journey. It’s gonna be tough. I’m under no illusions. How does a guy like me with:

  • no close friends
  • no career
  • no girlfriend for a looooooooooong time
  • several years of stagnating with anxiety behind him
  • no money

become wealthy, happy, successful and 100% healthy?

Is it possible to create a sexy (that’s right, I said SEXY!), dream life at my age, after so much time in the wilderness?

In just one year?

As I type this now, it seems foolish that I would even consider this, never mind decide to tell the whole world about it!

I’m very nervous.

This is the first time I’ve been really open and honest about my decades long struggle with mental health issues. I’ve never really had anyone to confide in before, so I’ve never been able to talk in depth about it.

It would be nice if you could lend a friendly ear.

That said…….


Firstly, because I don’t have anxiety any more! Secondly, because I want this to be an optimistic, positive and hopefully inspirational blog about what your life can be if you take ACTION and never let adversity stop you in your tracks.

I will of course, still write about anxiety because I know some of you will be living with it and it was such a major part of my life.

But if you want to know the in-depth story of my life with anxiety, please check out my free PDF which you can read by clicking this image which will take you to the “How I Crushed Anxiety” page:

How I Crushed Anxiety Twice!


It’s a look at life with social anxiety and what you can do to overcome it. I hope as many of you as possible will read and share it because I believe it can help others.

No-one has to live with anxiety forever.

There’s always a way out.

I firmly believe that and am living proof of it.



This blog is about my life after anxiety, namely the “awakening” I went through in 2016 and the action I’m taking in 2017 to create that dream life.

But more than anything, I am simply documenting my journey, so that one day in future, people will look back on it and be able to see exactly what I did to drag myself up from the brink, to create something special.

Maybe I can give a few people hope and inspiration.

And I believe it’s possible to create your dream life in as little as ONE YEAR. My aim is to put into practice all I’ve learned during my awakening and at this time in 2018, I hope that you and I can look back and say;

“Wow! Just look at how far this dude has come!”

Here’s a few things you can expect:

  1. A daily weekly regular whenever I get the time blog post
  2. Updates on what I’m doing to turn my life around from pretty much nothing at the moment, into a dream life
  3. Posts on what it’s like to go through an “awakening”
  4. Reviews on self-development (and related) books, YouTube channels, courses and websites
  5. Interviews with a few special guests
  6. Random musings on anxiety and how I’ve turned my life around from this complete shit of a disorder!




You’ll notice that I’ve put quotation marks around the word “awakening”. I don’t like using that term! It’s almost always preceded by the word “spiritual” and that makes it sound even weirder!

Have I gone through the cliched “spiritual awakening”?

Yeah, I guess so.

But I don’t want to call it that because it conjures up images of religious nuts, people dressed in white smocks sat in the lotus position, vegans with lumberjack beards and Ouija boards! I’ll discuss this more in my next post.

For now though, let’s just say that I have spent a whole year learning about some of the most important questions in life; yet ones which very few of us even begin to answer till we are too old for it to make a difference:

  1. Who are we?
  2. Where are we from?
  3. What are we here to do?
  4. What is our reality?
  5. Who am I?
  6. What is my life purpose?
  7. How can I be truly happy?
  8. Why do men have nipples?
  9. What the fuck was “Lost” really all about?
  10. What’s going on with Donald Trump’s hair?


The answers I’ve gained have fundamentally changed me in so many ways. I now know exactly who I am, what I want and (sort of!) how to get it. I’m a man with a plan! I’ll reveal that plan soon……..




Till then, if you’d like to take a look around the site you’ll be able to find:

I’d love to hear from you, especially if you have anything to share about anxiety or a mental health.

Or if you just want to say hello.

Or if you know what the fuck Lost was all about.

Or if you want details of where to send me cake.

I like cake.

And finally, please leave a comment in the section at the bottom of this post. I really want to connect to you guys. I’ve been alone on this journey for far too long!


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